Wednesday, February 17, 2010

5 Month birthday and 2 months in our arms

So the past 2 months have been crazy. I just noticed the day before yesterday that my little daily devotional thing in my kitchen was on December 18th. That was the day that we got back from Ethiopia with Zek. I guess Adams mom must of changed it that morning and I havent changed it yet. Usually I am on top of these things. I guess now I am not :) It has been 2 months since we have had Zek in our arms. (as of February 13th)


Here are a few pictures from the day that we met Zek. (December 13th)...




That morning some of the other families were going to head out to the market to go shopping for a bit. We decided to go as well. If you have been to Ethiopia, you know the itty bitty little blue taxi's? Well Adam and I and 2 other couples and the driver fit into one. That made 7 people in the tiny car! It was hilarious. Adam and I squeezed in the front seat and the other 4 squeezed in the back. The driver had to actually get out of the car and shut our door for us to make sure we were good and secure. I locked the door so I wouldn't fall out! Our next driver wouldnt let us squeeze into one car. We had to take 2. This is a picture from inside the car. We were trying to take a pic of the rear view mirror showing everyone in the car. On the way back we didnt know the address for the Union Hotel and non of the drivers knew where it was. We didnt have anyone phone numbers to call and ask. One of the drivers said that he could take us. He had to stop and ask some people if they knew. Somebody did. Luckily. We were like "oh no, we gotta get back in an hour to meet our babies!" A little scary, but we made it.



Driving to the market



Adam shopping



Adam showing off his bartering skills

Me giving some suckers away to the kids



This is right before we went in the gates to meet Zek.

Our very first picture with Zek. Happy cry.

Mommy and Daddy's first picture with Zek




Zeks 5 month birthday cookies. They were so good that I told Adam to never ever let me make them again. :)

Zek sleeping while the girls and I make the cookies. Sucking on those two fingers again.



The girls licking the mixers. Yum Yum! We love the cookie dough.
So the past 2 months have been interesting. I can't lie. It has been hard. You know part of it is that I am pregnant so I have those hormones and it's just hard adjusting. The first two weeks home Zek woke up about every 20 minutes during the night. He also cried ALOT. This was horrible. I was so sick from the pregnancy as well. Those first two weeks Adam took care of everything because I couldnt and really didnt feel like it. I admit I have been a little blue.


Things have been getting better. Some days are better than others. Sometimes I feel when Zek looks at me his eyes are saying "where have you been all of my life?" "I love you mommy" Other days I feel like when he is screaming (and I do really mean screaming) and I cant get him comforted he is saying "where is my mommy?" It breaks my heart when he cries like this. The screaming may be because he has acid reflux (lets hope so).

His pediatrician is putting him on acid reflux medication to see if this helps him with his fussiness. We had a swallow study done yesterday where they do an x-ray while he is drinking and he has a slightly floppy airway so our thickening of his formula is helping. So more than likely while in Ethiopia it was worse and cause aspiration causing his pneumonia. The airway would open a little yesterday but push it back to where it should be. If it would have been regular formula then it would probably go down into his airway. So I am glad that is getting better. Also, the pediatrician said it should totally be fixed by about 9 months and he can start having regular formula. yay! so now let's get the reflux under control and maybe he wont scream and he will sleep better?

Even with all of the sleepless nights and crying Zek is awesome! He has brought so much joy to this family. His smile and awesome laugh just brighten our days :)

Thank you God for this awesome little guy!


new photos

here are some new pics of the kiddos













Tonight I hope to post some pics of Zeks 5 month birthday cookies and post about him being with us now for 2 months! I just have to get time to do the post!

Thursday, February 11, 2010

This week in pictures

We have come a long way...Hazel didnt want much to do with her new baby brother for a long time. Now she is in love with him. She said "i want to hold zek" when I was holding him while he slept. I had to let her. It was the first time she asked. Maggie loves taking care of Zek. She is his little mom.
We have gotten lots and lots of snow this week. The girls have loved it.
We made valentine cookies and they were very yummy.
Zek loves to suck on his ring finger and middle finger. He does it all of the time. It is kinda like he is signing "I Love You". too cute
Another family pic
Okay so I am looking at Maggies school lessons for the day on our computer and I put Zek down right behind me so he can watch our turtle swim in it's tank. The girls are playing dress up. I look down at Zek after a few minutes and see that the girls have joined Zek in on their dress up time. Sorry Zek but I thought the picture was too funny to not post and your sisters thought it was hilarious. What can you expect with 2 big sisters who love to be girly girls.
Zek looking cute.
Zek is so much fun. I thought I would see if he fit in the girls doll crib. He did barely.
Maggie being crazy before bed.
Hazel in her Ethiopia dress.

It has been a good week this week. We are settling in more and more. Zek has had an awesome week of sleep. Last night he slept all night!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yippeeeeee!!!!!!!! 8pm - 6:30am and then back to sleep until I had to wake him up at 7:45. Let's make this the norm Zek!!!!

Monday, February 8, 2010

Baby #4

I wanted to post a picture of our new addition at 19 weeks. We are pretty much half way there!!!! We have an ultrasound coming up soon, but we are not finding out if it is a boy or a girl. We found out with the girls, but we want it to be a surprise this time. :) I can feel the baby move more and more every day. Adam and Maggie have both felt the baby kick. We are all very excited. Zek is excited to be a big brother. He is doing well and growing like crazy. Sleep hasn't been the greatest except for last night when he went to bed at 9:30 woke up at 4 and again at 6:30. I think that was pretty good!!!!!! Good job Zek!!!! Lets do that again....

I will try to post some more new pictures soon.



Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Sleep

Right now I need more sleep than usual and I am getting less...

Zek woke up 8 or 9 times last night! This has been the norm lately! He hasn't been a good sleeper since the day we got him. When he wakes up he starts to fuss and then within seconds screams the loudest scream ever! So right when he starts to make noise we have to tend to him because if not he will scream and wake everyone else up. I really hope it gets better soon.

Last night was miserable then everyone wakes up at 6:45am wanting to get up. ugh! It is hard to function on lack of sleep being pregnant and taking care of 3 other kids and trying to do everything else that I need to do.

I dont know what to do about his sleep except for wait and see if it gets better...then baby number 4 will come along and I pray that this baby is the best sleep ever :)

Sorry to complain. Things are just a little rough!

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

new pictures of Zek

Things have been going well. Zek is doing great! We had his 4 month well baby visit last week and he now weighs 12 lbs! So he has gained about 2 1/2 lbs since the week after we got home. And he has grown 2 inches as well! We are still adjusting and it is still crazy around here. We would like to get on some sort of schedule someday :) The girls are great with Zek. Hazel has really warmed up to him and we are so happy that she has!

Zek has the cutest little smile and has a very expressive face and the most contagious little laugh. It is great!


Here are a few new pictures....

He holds onto my Africa necklace.


We love his big eyes

Monday, January 18, 2010

Things have been busy around here...

It has been forever since I have done a post...

Things have been a bit crazy around here. Going from two to three kids has been a bigger change than what we had anticipated! I havent had any time to do a post. Really I havent...

Our trip to Ethiopia was great! Meeting Zek was amazing!!!!!

Let's start everything off by telling all of you that.......Zek is going to be a big brother! We are expecting our 4th child on the 4th of July! We have known for awhile but wanted to wait to announce it publicly. I am 16 weeks now. This was a huge surprise for us!!!!! We talked to AGCI and everything was ok with me being pregnant because of where we were in our adoption process. Gods plans are pretty amazing! Our adoption from start to finish took 8 months! I know that it went so fast because it needed to if we were to get pregnant when we did. So our family is growing ALOT faster than we had ever imagined!

Up until about 14 weeks pregnant I get extremely sick. Yep I was having all day morning sickness while in Ethiopia! Not fun. I was actually dreading the trip feeling so bad, but I stuck it out through the week and made the best of it.

Upon coming home we hadnt slept in over a day, we had jet lag, I was feeling soooo sick, and we were coming back home to our two girls. Zek did not sleep well during his first two weeks home. He would wake up about every 20 minutes throughout the night! and he cried often...Hazel had a horrible time adjusting to her new roll as big sister and she got sick over Christmas. She is doing much better now adjusting to her new roll as big sister. Maggie has been in love with Zek from day one. Luckily, I have a wonderful husband and he has been an amazing help! He did pretty much everything the first two weeks home.

So needless to say we had a rough start. Things are going much better now. Zek is sleeping better and not crying like he did. Although he still prefers to be held alot. We are bonding and attaching well. He is so young that he cant really show preference to us yet. But I cant wait for the day he reaches his arms out for us!

I am extremely tired all of the time, so that is why I have not posted anything. I tend to go to sleep right when the kids do. Having a new baby and a baby on the way and the two girls is hard work!

Here are some pictures of the past month...

Us meeting Zek for the first time.




Isnt he a doll? Everybody says he looks like one :)


His hair can get pretty crazy. We are learning what to do with it :)



His new favorite past time. sucking on his fingers.

forgot to rotate this picture. this is new years eve.


Attempt at some family pictures. You can tell Adam and I are pretty exhausted!

another attempt


The girls making Zek some 4 month birthday cupcakes (i have to have an excuse to make them!)

Zek with icing on his nose. ( i didnt really let him eat cupcakes!)


Hazel eating cupcakes


Maggie icing on her face. We didnt make the icing look like a heart. Somehow it happened on its own. Maggie thought it was pretty cool.